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I’m a Life Strategist with a BSc Psychology, Certified Practitioner of Cognitive Behavioral Coaching, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, with over 20 years of education, training, and experiences in mental & behavioral health.
I’ll help you heal and move past your heart-shattering breakup by quickly and efficiently getting over your ex, increasing your self-worth, establishing and enforcing strong boundaries, and living-forward in alignment with your authentic self.
All in a safe space without judgement.
Unlike most relationship coaches, I won’t show you how to “get your ex back” nor do I give “save your relationship” or dating advice. My specialty lies in the “be done with the pain and take back your sanity” space, so if you’re looking for the strongest tag-team partner to kick your addiction to your ex without looking back, I’m your girl.
Regardless of which side of the breakup you were on, ending a serious relationship is never easy. You are left walking around with a gaping hole in your heart and a head full of obsessions. You feel lonely, numb, empty, and your heart is completely weighed down from pain and confusion. This loss can even feel like death itself.
And there’s only so many times you can turn to your family and friends about this before they understandably grow exhausted by your sadness, anger, and repetitive stories.
As the reality of the breakup sets in, you’re left to deal with your thoughts and emotions… struggling to process the excruciating grief and quiet the obsessive thinking. Whoever said “time heals all wounds” was certainly not referring to your situation.
You desperately want to move on but because you’re a caring and feeling human being, you cannot simply “turn off” the feelings just because the relationship is over – even if the decision was yours.
Is This You?
- You can’t stop thinking about your ex
- Regardless of how badly you were treated, you recall only the “good times”
- You try to find excuses to contact them even if you know you shouldn’t
- You have difficulty setting boundaries with your ex
- Your family and friends constantly insist you should just “let it go” and you feel like there’s something wrong with you because you can’t
- You have children together and have difficulty making healthy decisions
- Your self esteem has been shattered
- Your ex cheated and you wonder if you’ll ever trust again
- You stalk them on social media
- You have friends in common and afraid to socialize
- You feel like you need “closure”
- You fantasize about whether it could still work
- You have difficulty focusing on work or school.
- Your thoughts are filled with your ex that you are unable to function effectively
Recovering from a breakup is very similar to recovering from an addiction. And just as addicts must break their dependence on toxic substances, people who are trying to heal from a breakup must break free from their unhealthy dependence on another person.
I’ll help you work through the pain and confusion without judgment. The objective is not to “get your ex back” but to “get yourself back”. After all, this is the time to focus on and nurture the person who needs you most – YOU.
Fiona, New Zealand / NC Coaching Student Kim, Survivor Isabella / Coach.me Client Marisol, Jacksonville, FL / NC Coaching Student Mimi, Survivor Joshua / Coach.me Client
12 Months No Contact
Thank you so much for being the loudest voice I’ve heard so far
Ideas to wipe out possible obstacles
Thank you for giving me the strength to choose my well-being.
I’m so grateful to have found you as a resource.
Delivers on all fronts
Fiona, New Zealand / NC Coaching Student
Isabella / Coach.me Client
Marisol, Jacksonville, FL / NC Coaching Student
Joshua / Coach.me Client
Certified Life Strategist, Rapid Breakup Recovery Coach, and Advocate of Victims of Narcissistic Abuse.